Children of Foster Carers Week

It is a common myth that people cannot become Foster Carers if they have already have children. This is not correct. At the start of Children of Foster Carers’ Week, we want to take the time to celebrate the children who also open their homes to children in care.

Many families who foster already have children; and this is one of the most important factors to consider during the assessment process. When a family begins fostering, and welcomes a child from care into their home, the children of foster carers, especially if they are still living at home, also need to be considered, as they must adapt to the change of having a foster sibling.

Parents know their child better than anyone and know how they would cope with a change in the family dynamic, however, Fair Ways also make sure the children of prospective foster carers are an integral part of out assessment process. It is important to us that they have a full understanding of fostering what this will mean, and the impact this will have on their family.

As well as regularly visiting any foster children in your home, we also check up on any birth children to see how they are finding their family fostering.

Having a foster child in their home will impact their family dynamic and there will be day to day changes, including visits from support workers, so open and honest conversation is essential. Parents need to create a safe space, encourage open dialogue, and most importantly, be patient. Understanding that they may have mixed emotions about another child entering the home needs to be listened to.

Ultimately, fostering is the parents’ responsibility – but the whole family welcome and support any foster child on their journey – so thank you to the Children of Foster Carers for making a positive difference to a child in care when they need it most.